This morning, while lying in bed and talking to the Lord, I thought I heard Him speak the words “picture frame pain.” Hmm. Maybe I misheard or was otherwise mistaken. Those three words, one of which didn’t seem to belong with the others, weren’t sparking anything for me. While still in bed, endeavoring to avoid waking my family, I reached for my phone and I Googled those three words. At first, I thought my search was a dead end. But then, somewhere near the bottom of the search results, I saw a link to a Trip Advisor page for something called Grievous Gallery, in Salisbury, NC. Art. Ok. Good. I am a maker and an appreciated of art. In fact, few things excite me as much as the prospect of making art. To me, art is life. But what does this gallery, located a very far cry from the Pacific Northwest (home), have to do with “picture frame pain?”
Then my eyes scanned the Trip Advisor attraction information for Grievous Gallery and read this: “The place where you come to ‘frame your pain.’ Throw bottles, dishes, and glassware to your heart’s content in our warehouse…Leaving your troubles behind. Our local artists then rescue your glass and make it into something new and beautiful, on display in our gallery. Let off some steam while turning negative energy into a new form.” Wow. Wow. WOW. The Lord pointed me to a place where you write your pain onto breakables and then proceed to demolish the very same breakables. He directed my attention to a place where the pain is acknowledged, framed, and then let go. A place of healing. Wow.
But that’s not where it ends. Because at Grievous Gallery all of that broken glass and crockery, all of that released pain, is then collected and repurposed. Pain is shattered and its pieces are given new life in the form of art. Broken becomes beautiful. As I read on I learned that some of the shards even end up in building materials. They become someone’s strong and useful foundation. Wow, God. All the feels. This is beautiful. This speaks to me. I need this place. Oh, how I need it. Or something like it. I absolutely want to know more about this. I need to know how I can do this or something like it. I have a lifetime of pain to release. I need to heal. So. Bad.
To some, my response won’t make a whole lot of sense. It likewise won’t resonate with others. But this is God doing what He does, reaching into our tender places with an intensely personal and individualized touch. This is God, the One who made me and knows absolutely everything about me, loving me. You see, one of my personality traits and something that has always made me feel very different from others is an interest in the discarded. I am drawn to the unexplored potential of the things we throw away. I’m not Oscar the Grouch, but I like the leavings. I do. So much so that one of my oft-used online usernames is Gleangenie. I also once operated a one-woman handmade goods business called Plush Rummage. The image above is of a card I recrafted from more than 90% "rescued" materials. Yup. Yard sales and scrap piles are my jam.
God has made me to love making new from old. He has given me a mind that likes to work with discarded or overlooked (rejected) things, to transform them. And I’m only now beginning to see the elephant that has always been in the room. I, too, was rejected and discarded by my parents. As a quiet, deeply thoughtful and highly sensitive person, I am continuously overlooked in this life. What can I say? The world tends to cater to, and lavish adoration on, those who are louder, more conspicuous, more confident, and more willing to take up space. This is how it is, whether you’re talking about a child’s birthday party, a group Bible study, the school playground, or a department in any organization anywhere. Quiet girls who like shabby things aren’t generally treasured.
Because of the painful rejection of my parents, and living in a world that doesn’t care about people like me, I have come to believe I have no value. No worth. No beauty. No use. At the same time, I am ever seeking to make things of beauty from the broken down scraps and castoffs that I see everywhere. If I can do this with physical materials—repurpose and recreate—why can’t I do this with my own life? With my own self?
It’s true that God made me a maker. A creative and a creator. I’m happiest when I waste nothing. But remaking or repurposing a human being is not the work of other people. At least not directly. It’s the work of the God of Heaven. The Master architect and artist. Oh, He’ll use other people to help Him repurpose someone, but the reordering and remaking is absolutely God’s work. As the person or the material in need of repurposing, my participation is required, but I can’t actually remake me. Only God can do that. This morning, as I continued to lie in bed I heard Him say “Follow.” And I, a fledgling in the faith, and a very literal thinker in many respects said: “How?” “Where?” I need the Lord to keep speaking to me about this. This is big. I need this. I feel it in my bones.
This much I know. God is faithful. He is the Master Repurposer. When life and the world have used us up, broken us down, or thrown us away, He is able and waiting to take us apart and reconstruct us according to His perfect creative imagination. I know He can be trusted. I know He wants to redeem and restore (the Bible clearly says so). But neither can be done without an unmaking and a remaking.
Sometimes, many times, if I’m being honest, I feel as though I am the bottle that’s being hurled and broken into bits. And it hurts. Terribly. Each day I’m a new bottle, and I’m being shattered. But I need not fear being scattered. He wastes nothing. So what is He making? Can I let the Master take me all apart? Can I trust that in His hands I am a repurposed masterpiece in the making?
And when can I hop on a plane to NC and the Grievous Gallery? I’ve got 46 years of pain to let go.
“I have been crucified with Christ and I no longer live, but Christ lives in me. The life I now live in the body, I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me.”
Galatians 2:20 NIV
“On hearing this, Jesus said, “It is not the healthy who need a doctor, but the sick. But go and learn what this means: ‘I desire mercy, not sacrifice.’ For I have not come to call the righteous, but sinners.”
Matthew 9:12-13 NIV